Using no control and using humor will build a relationship and make a dent to where the client puts the counselor in their quality world and then begins to relate and seek out the counselor. Effective therapy begins with the acceptance of the therapist into the client's quality world.

This quote explains that the first step of effective therapy is for the therapist (counselor) to build a relationship with the client. The therapist should be open, friendly, and make the client feel comfortable. Doing so will help the client see the therapist as someone they can trust and rely on. Once that connection is established, the client will begin to trust and see the therapist as someone who can help them.