You can't do anything to be funny. That's cringeworthy. If your humor comes out of a place of love every time, you don't make the joke bigger than you. The funniest comedians are in touch with their emotional level.

This quote means that it is not a good idea to try too hard to be funny. Using humor from a place of love, or trying to make an audience feel good, is often more effective than trying to make a joke too big. The funniest comedians are the ones who are aware of their own emotions and use that when creating jokes.